Fascinating to watch all of the white people who bizarrely see Melania Trump as the epitome of class, now clutching their pearls at the sight of a couple of beautiful, […]
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Condescension, smug dismissals and being talked down to are common experiences for male survivors – even within allegedly “woke” sexual violence advocacy. As a trained victim advocate with thousands of […]
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#girlslikeus Episode 26 JANUARY 23, 2020 This week the girls sit down with an amazing survivor, advocate, veteran, and man. As we all know rape/sexual assault is already under-reported, and […]
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I’ve talked about her before, but I decided to put together a graphic to share on my social media accounts. This is just a tiny bit of taking back some […]
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People often make demands of me regarding what I did to “cause” my own rape. They insist upon asking why I didn’t fight back or react in the way they […]
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I hate doing it, but talk of war always forces me to thin out the fellow vets in my friends lists. More of you are outing yourselves with racist banter, […]
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I really miss this guy’s anti-war perspectives – especially right now, so I meme’d him. Feel free to share.
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I’ve talked previously about my female rapist. I’ve not talked much about a form of sexual assault that is often downplayed or dismissed – groping. When my (then) girlfriend’s bestie […]
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Those who have followed my posts on social media, know that music is my self-care. It has been since I was a teenager. While I own thousands of albums and […]
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I’ve been saying this shit for years regarding the snobbery puritanism over ebooks, which have been around since at least the 80s, traded or sold originally on floppy disks. Also, […]
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