Advocacy Pro-Tip: When confronted with someone’s horrible, shitty, no-good, very bad, utterly indefensible, repugnant, smelly, abusive, garbage behavior, responding with “what about so-and-so who is worse…” you are engaging in […]
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Oleta on my speakers while I work on staffing stuff.
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One of my favorite songs from my “working overnight” playlist.
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Working on admin crap and listening to my Beth Orton albums. One of my favorite songs from the late 90s.
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Toni Braxton self-care for the afternoon.
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#SAAM2020 A common way survivors are shamed is by focusing on their body’s response to sexual violence. Some things that I’ve had to accept: The woman who raped me was aroused. […]
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Finishing up some work stuff and listening to Toni…
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Aimee Mann fronting ‘Til Tuesday in their debut single and video. Still sounds good decades later.
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#SAAM2020 As a male survivor, I am constantly lectured by alleged allies on how easy I have it because no one asks “what were you wearing.” First, that isn’t really true. […]
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#SAAM2020 Pro-Tip: Rape is still rape, whether a judge, jury, prosecutor, or police officer signed off on it. Reality exists independent of the legal system, which fails more often than […]
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