I have never fit into the “perfect” or “model” victim category. No one fits into that box. Stop looking for the perfect victim. They don’t exist. Really. Over the years: […]
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Author: James Landrith
My Female Rapist…
I’ve talked before about being raped by a woman. I’ve seldom talked about how she fucked with my head afterward. All of this happened within the 12 hours after.
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RAINN Speakers Bureau: Survivor Spotlight
Military Sexual Assault Survivor: James
Military Sexual Assault Survivor: James Published by RAINN “I didn’t tell anyone because I kept thinking: Do I have a right to feel this way? Am I taking up space […]
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PTSD Recap: 10/31/2019
PTSD Recap: Reactions and triggers can vary widely from person to person. Multiple traumas can affect the same person in very different ways. Today, PTSD for me was simple and […]
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TBT – When a Woman Sexually Assaults a Man
#TBT to another time The Atlantic mentioned my survivor story as part of a larger discussion of female predators. If you keep at it long enough, people do start to […]
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Satirical Victim-Shaming Is Still Victim-Shaming
I have spoken before about overzealous online activists attempting to satirically victim-shame male survivors because they stupidly believe we don’t get victim-shamed appropriately. Yes, this is a fucking batshit crazy […]
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11 Years of Talking About My Rape in the Public Sphere
This was an interesting read in The Atlantic regarding Chanel Miller’s recent decision to step out of anonymity and share her story via memoir. It got me thinking about the evolution of […]
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Ally Pro-Tip: It is Real Work
Being an ally is real work. More so, especially if you approach it with pre-conceived notions, ideological blindspots or biases. #metoo #metoomovement
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Stay classy WMATA
Stay classy WMATA.
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