Catering to Female Predators
I’ve talked about her before, but I decided to put together a graphic to share on my social media accounts. This is just a tiny bit of taking back some power from Shannon. ...
Author: James Landrith
What My Female Rapist Said to Me
People often make demands of me regarding what I did to “cause” my own rape. They insist upon asking why I didn’t fight back or react in the way they are so sure they...
Not Cosigning Your Bloodlust
I hate doing it, but talk of war always forces me to thin out the fellow vets in my friends lists. More of you are outing yourselves with racist banter, endorsement of genocide, utter...
I Am Not At War
I really miss this guy’s anti-war perspectives – especially right now, so I meme’d him. Feel free to share.
Female Gropers
I’ve talked previously about my female rapist. I’ve not talked much about a form of sexual assault that is often downplayed or dismissed – groping. When my (then) girlfriend’s bestie groped me repeatedly by...
Favorite Albums List
Those who have followed my posts on social media, know that music is my self-care. It has been since I was a teenager. While I own thousands of albums and hundreds of thousands of...
Just Enjoy Books, Stop Being So Classist
I’ve been saying this shit for years regarding the snobbery puritanism over ebooks, which have been around since at least the 80s, traded or sold originally on floppy disks. Also, never mind the fact...
PSA: STOP Saying These Things to Survivors
STOP Saying These Things to Survivors – A Public Service Announcement by SurvivorTribe December 21, 2019 Are you a survivor who is fed up with the stupid sh*t people say to you about...
Victim Shaming Script
Literally every victim-shaming conversation I’ve ever had: Rando Internet Victim-Shamer: I wanna fight! Me: How about I just respond to your totally legit, not at all loaded or victim-shamey question instead? Rando Internet Victim-Shamer:...
Empathy vs. Enabling
One of the more damaging aspects of non-trauma-informed new agey “counseling” techniques is the expectation that survivors must do emotional labor for abusers and victim-shamers, such as: Forgiveness Ignoring victim-shamers personally attacking them Assuming...