There are many unpaid, hard-working advocates and activists within sexual violence advocacy circles. So much crucial work is done on local levels – unpaid and outside of normal working hours. […]
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Category: Blog, Commentary and Articles
A section containing all blog entries, articles and commentaries. Many of these entries were imported from my earlier Blogspot, MovableType and WordPress blogs. In addition, political commentary, articles and essays written for publication and coursework can be found here. Much of the commentary in this section was published in The Multiracial Activist, The Abolitionist Examiner, The Good Men Project and Interracial Voice. Many essays in this section were written for coursework at the American Military University.
Your Survivor Story
#SAAPM: As a survivor with a public story, I’ve learned a few things since first breaking my silence in 2008: 1 – You don’t owe anyone your story. 2- You […]
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Veteran Alphas
Veterans and service members who scream “POGUE!” at anyone they don’t like are basically the active duty equivalent of incels. Well, some of them actually are incels. Some of them […]
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That “Whore” Thing
“He must have been a giant #whore.” – 1/11/2013 Twitter comment about my rape by “Alice” The thing about that bit of victim-shaming is that I didn’t become promiscuous until after […]
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Appearance =/= Consent
A demoralizing aspect of being a survivor in the media are trolls. This is a photo of me, taken less than a year after I was raped in 1990. When […]
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Sympathy for the Rapist
As soon as people learned that my rapist was a woman, they crawled out from under rocks to tell me that I “owed” my rapist compassion because she “must’ve been […]
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Calling it Rape is Progress
When I started doing advocacy work on female predators back in 2008, it was SOOOOOOOOOOOO RARE to see a woman’s sexual violence crimes described as rape in the media…or anywhere. […]
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R. Kelly Is A Rapist, Maybe Don’t Be His Rape Apologist
R. Kelly will be sentenced soon enough. Get ready for all of the proud, low information clowns to come out of the woodwork with: “What about Harvey????” – He’s in […]
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Religious Pro-Tip: You Are Not Being Oppressed When
Religious Pro-Tip: You are NOT being oppressed when: you are not allowed to force others to pray you are not allowed to make others be silent in order to make […]
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States Rights =/= Anarchism (or Stop Being a Clown Ass Ancap)
Ancaps celebrating the repeal of Roe v. Wade are full of shit. You are celebrating the ability of states to USE GOVERNMENT FORCE (MEN WITH GUNS AND BADGES) AGAINST WOMEN […]
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