Whenever there is a discussion of trauma and triggers online, a cabal of internet tough guys and conservative mommies come screaming in to mock the idea of giving a shit […]
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Category: Blog, Commentary and Articles
A section containing all blog entries, articles and commentaries. Many of these entries were imported from my earlier Blogspot, MovableType and WordPress blogs. In addition, political commentary, articles and essays written for publication and coursework can be found here. Much of the commentary in this section was published in The Multiracial Activist, The Abolitionist Examiner, The Good Men Project and Interracial Voice. Many essays in this section were written for coursework at the American Military University.
Faux Sexual Violence Advocacy
There are many unpaid, hard-working advocates and activists within sexual violence advocacy circles. So much crucial work is done on local levels – unpaid and outside of normal working hours. […]
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Your Survivor Story
#SAAPM: As a survivor with a public story, I’ve learned a few things since first breaking my silence in 2008: 1 – You don’t owe anyone your story. 2- You […]
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Veteran Alphas
Veterans and service members who scream “POGUE!” at anyone they don’t like are basically the active duty equivalent of incels. Well, some of them actually are incels. Some of them […]
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That “Whore” Thing
“He must have been a giant #whore.” – 1/11/2013 Twitter comment about my rape by “Alice” The thing about that bit of victim-shaming is that I didn’t become promiscuous until after […]
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Appearance =/= Consent
A demoralizing aspect of being a survivor in the media are trolls. This is a photo of me, taken less than a year after I was raped in 1990. When […]
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Blocking and Unblocking is Creepy ASF
Lol, there is an extremely toxic female figure within MST advocacy circles who has done this to me several times over the last 9 years. She told me that because […]
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MAGA Reality Freakouts Are So Fetch
Fragile, whiny conservatives have the weirdest flexes. Dudes, welcome to how regular folks in the real world are already treated.
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Music Break: Olivia and Twist of Fate
Art.
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Bearded Dragon Fight Club
This bearded dragon wants to fight. View this post on Instagram A post shared by Bearded.Dragonfans (@bearded.dragonfans)
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