#SAAPM – An early part of healing is having no idea how to start. After I was raped, I engaged in some dangerous and risky behaviors: Reckless promiscuity with significantly older […]
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Author: James Landrith
Reflections on a Decade of Advocacy
After over a decade of work in sexual violence advocacy, I’ve accomplished much and accepted the ugliness: Being dismissed by ideologues solely on the basis of gender, both mine and […]
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Allies Listen…
Some of the more annoying things about being a male survivor of a female rapist in the public eye are: Fixation on the genital aspects of the rape. Aggressive demands […]
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Comparative Justice Hot Takes Are Still Rape Apologia
Weinstein got 23 years. Meanwhile, Cosby and R. Kelly apologists are sitting in stunned silence. All of their lying exposed to the world: They said there were no charges – […]
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Privileged Political Perspective
It is NEVER just a difference of opinion. People’s lives, rights and realities are always at stake. Grow up people. Stop down-playing the damage simply because you lack the spine […]
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Remembering My Involvement in Presidential Politics
#TBT to 2000, 2004 and 2007 when Al Gore, John Kerry and the DNC used my advocacy work on the anti-miscegenationist Bob Jones University in press releases, blog postings, campaign […]
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Trivializing Rape Based on Gender
When I discuss women trivializing sexual violence when the perp is also a woman, this is what I am talking about. Also, when I talk about allies gaslighting us, it […]
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Super Bowl Half-Time Hypocrisy
Fascinating to watch all of the white people who bizarrely see Melania Trump as the epitome of class, now clutching their pearls at the sight of a couple of beautiful, […]
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“Sorry that you’re triggered…”
Condescension, smug dismissals and being talked down to are common experiences for male survivors – even within allegedly “woke” sexual violence advocacy. As a trained victim advocate with thousands of […]
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#girlslikeus – Episode 26
#girlslikeus Episode 26 JANUARY 23, 2020 This week the girls sit down with an amazing survivor, advocate, veteran, and man. As we all know rape/sexual assault is already under-reported, and […]
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