Excerpt from my presentation on Male Survivors of Sexual Violence: My Story and How to Help (1 CEU hour):
The woman who raped me didn’t say much beyond warnings and veiled threats. This is a sample of what I heard during and after the rape:
- “Don’t be forceful!”
- “What did I say? Don’t be forceful!”
- “I’m not done yet.”
- “You can get up now. I need to go home.”
- “I told you not to be forceful! Now my pussy is sore.”
She warned me not to move. She got angry when I tried to speed things up after it started to get painful. She insisted I drive her home after the rape. She blamed me for her vagina being sore after raping me twice (in my sleep and then in the morning). Additionally, there was a threat that I’m not documenting here as I’ve talked about it elsewhere.
