Creepy Female Skeptics
I’ve talked a bit about female skeptics demanding that I answer questions on my rape. They ask about:
- My erection and her vagina.
- Did she and I orgasm.
- “How” did she rape me.
If I refuse to answer, I am accused of lying. If I do answer I am accused of lying and then chided for not prioritizing their feelings over my trauma. Regardless of how I respond, the point is to put me in my place for speaking out.
Incompetent online advocates sometimes accommodate this type of behavior by tone-policing survivor responses to female skeptics.

