The Women's Resource Center at the University of Wisconsin – Milwaukee asked the following question:
If you come across someone who laughs at the idea of teaching men not to rape, what's the best way to explain things to them(without exploding in frustration)?
I'd start by remembering that 1 in 6 males experience sexual violence by age 18, not including those of us hurt as adults. I'd start by viewing us as more than potential allies, but as survivors in our own right. Talk with us, not down to us, or at us. The condescension and arrogance of some advocates – especially toward male survivors – makes it harder for many men to trust. Listen to us as well if you value our buy-in and desire our participation in your campaigns and advocacy efforts. We are actual human beings, not targets to be converted. You should expect to receive some pushback when you tell a male survivor of rape that they need to be taught not to rape.